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The question of her agency is being skirted because it unravels this nonsense concept.  You drive the car you dont create the race course

So she could have simply drove her car somewhere else but she decided not to and in turn is responsible for what happened(?)

Lots of roads but only one end point. But again metaphor aside, what did sophie do to deserve that.. and choosing to incarnate on earth is not an answer, i would expect that from your shaman friend monkey dick

So after reading her statement to the court, which I thought was interesting to say the least, it seems that her 'error' was in failing to resist this 'Thrash'. If she was too weak to resist him physically (which is to be expected from such an age gap) then she should have searched for someone who could help her.
She did try to do this but she went to all the wrong people. 'Wrong people' in mention being her entire family besides her grandmother apparently.

Her statement to the court shows that she was feeling low and self destructive, trying to 'run away' and not face what was going on, turning to questionable activities and people thinking it would numb what she was going through.
I think its 'clear' here that she refused to acknowledge what was going on but when she did and sought treatment she became better because she wanted to improve and do better, not because someone else wanted her to.

So the point is that she wanted to and persisted with her will power to find a way to improve after the situation she apparently could have avoided happened. If she had this will power to improve while younger and not tried to run away and found someone else better to assist her than her garbage family, then this may not have gotten as bad as it did.

She put her faith in someone else and expected them to protect her. That seems to be the biggest fault in her actions. When you put yourself in the hands of others, be it for protection or sustenance, you are at their mercy and what ever they have planned for you.

The 'WUSA9' article on this seems to have the most information. All other reports on this lack the amount of information presented in that article.
In that article they report that not only the mothers boyfriend molested her but also her foster father she 'inherited' after the court placed her in a foster home (this happens far more than most would like to believe, so it would seem).
So her mothers boyfriend and the later foster father both abused her. For some reason she thought the mothers boyfriend or her foster father was her actual father.
This is reported in the quoted (but only linked in one place I found) statement to the court she made. "
I’ve questioned why someone who is supposed to love me and be my father would do this to me, and it hurts to get raped by the ones who “love” you."

It's also reported that the mothers boyfriend was 'charming' enough to gain the mothers benefit of the doubt and apparently made an effort to buy the approval and trust of the child 'Sophie'.

The WUSA9 article left out the statement to the court that is shared in another article (linked below). I think its weird she apparent says "Thank you for my time".

Quote

"At the age of eight, my life changed.

As a result of this change, I have experienced a number of emotional and behavioral difficulties,

and I’ve also experienced the pain of separation from my family especially my mom, my brother and my son.

These changes have impacted my life a lot in the past four years,

and I want to explain a little more what my impact looked like.

I went [from] a happy, positive, cheerful person to a depressed, negative and unhappy person and I once had a childhood,

but I often tell myself I want my childhood back, but I am stuck with the reality that I can never get it back.

What happened to me has changed the way I view myself, others in the world.

I’ve questioned why someone who is supposed to love me and be my father would do this to me, and it hurts to get raped by the ones who “love” you.

I was afraid to tell him because my whole life was shattered, and I felt like I was going to get hurt, and even when I tried speaking up no one would listen in my family. My life has been a roller coaster of experiences spiraling out of control.


I have self- harmed to numb the pain, anger, outbursts and fighting because I can’t communicate how I feel inside.

Running away to escape my pain. Substance abuse to express my feelings.

Getting in trouble at school and involvement in unhealthy relationships.

I did these things to try to escape my own living hell. Despite all of this, I am determined to gain back a life of happiness, positivity and cheerfulness. Although I can’t get my childhood back, I will gain a successful and [sic] teenage and adult life.

I am receiving therapy to help me learn to express my thoughts and feelings in healthier ways, manage my emotions better, improve my self-esteem, positive and healthy interactions with others and process through the negative impacts of my trauma, successfully overcome the past.

I’ve been successful in treatment, and I have significantly decreased my self-harm behaviors, and I will continue to work towards to [sic] my goals in treatment. My favorite quote tells me is each day of “life is tougher but I am tougher”.

Thank you for my time."

Sophie Speaks: How a Georgia mother allowed her boyfriend to impregnate her 10-year-old
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Because you haven't said otherwise, I will continue to assume that this story and the articles linked are referring to the same 'Sophie' you are referring to.

wasnt there a golden rule thread around here somewhere?

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You realize an attorney coached that statemeht right

"Coached" as in had a role in how it was worded at the very least? Interesting I did not know that had I known that before I probably wouldn't have written a long post on it at least not in the same way as I have.

I suppose it makes sense given that she couldn't have been more than 12 years old at the time and I'm going to assume that her way of writing wasn't advanced enough to match what the court statement actually said and covered. I could be wrong there.

How do you know an attorney coached the statement? I must have missed where that was at least suggested.

Anyway, that still leaves us with what did she do to bring about what rape and related experiences she had. Was anything else in there besides the statement accurate (in what I said)?