NRG is Eternal!

I've been fascinated for a while with the particular section of the Johari window called the Blind Spot. It's the aspect of yourself that everyone else sees, but that you don't. We all have one. It encompasses all of our habits and perspectives that influence our decisions, and that are visible to everyone else but us.


Do you know someone to continues to think a certain way? A way that may cause more problems for them than not? And you think to yourself, if I could just make them see! We all know someone like that. Funny thing is, some of us might be that person in someone else's world. Imagine how tptb leverage this blind spot on all of us.


The more I thought about it, the more I realized that in each of our blind spot is a wealth of solutions to the problems that have most frustrated us in our lives. We create our reality, and so when we are creating a reality we don't want despite our best intentions, could it be there is something we are creating blindly that we are not aware we are creating? Therein lies a key. A key to a massive hidden door.

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I've been fascinated for a while with the particular section of the Johari window called the Blind Spot. It's the aspect of yourself that everyone else sees, but that you don't. We all have one. It encompasses all of our habits and perspectives that influence our decisions, and that are visible to everyone else but us.


Do you know someone to continues to think a certain way? A way that may cause more problems for them than not? And you think to yourself, if I could just make them see! We all know someone like that. Funny thing is, some of us might be that person in someone else's world. Imagine how tptb leverage this blind spot on all of us.


The more I thought about it, the more I realized that in each of our blind spot is a wealth of solutions to the problems that have most frustrated us in our lives. We create our reality, and so when we are creating a reality we don't want despite our best intentions, could it be there is something we are creating blindly that we are not aware we are creating? Therein lies a key. A key to a massive hidden door.

Maybe it's not often that it happens but I find myself and my more positive attributes and accomplishments shoved into a 'blind spot'. When someone asks "Well what are you good at?" and you apparently can't think of anything.
Though I think that may be more due to insecurities and some ego influence but I'm not that sure.

What I do before I try to solve any problem in my own world, mental, physical or otherwise, I first think "I am responsible for what ever is going on right now" and with that in mind, it makes finding the 'real issue' a lot easier than it could have been.
You have to be able to look at what your doing/done and remove any shame or guilt from the analyzing process if you actually want to locate the problem and not feel 'bad' about it.

I think we have been programmed a great deal to consistently beat ourselves down not in a constructive manner but more in a 'you aren't good at anything. You're so stupid

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I've been fascinated for a while with the particular section of the Johari window called the Blind Spot. It's the aspect of yourself that everyone else sees, but that you don't. We all have one. It encompasses all of our habits and perspectives that influence our decisions, and that are visible to everyone else but us.


Do you know someone to continues to think a certain way? A way that may cause more problems for them than not? And you think to yourself, if I could just make them see! We all know someone like that. Funny thing is, some of us might be that person in someone else's world. Imagine how tptb leverage this blind spot on all of us.


The more I thought about it, the more I realized that in each of our blind spot is a wealth of solutions to the problems that have most frustrated us in our lives. We create our reality, and so when we are creating a reality we don't want despite our best intentions, could it be there is something we are creating blindly that we are not aware we are creating? Therein lies a key. A key to a massive hidden door.

Maybe it's not often that it happens but I find myself and my more positive attributes and accomplishments shoved into a 'blind spot'. When someone asks "Well what are you good at?" and you apparently can't think of anything.
Though I think that may be more due to insecurities and some ego influence but I'm not that sure.

What I do before I try to solve any problem in my own world, mental, physical or otherwise, I first think "I am responsible for what ever is going on right now" and with that in mind, it makes finding the 'real issue' a lot easier than it could have been.
You have to be able to look at what your doing/done and remove any shame or guilt from the analyzing process if you actually want to locate the problem and not feel 'bad' about it.

I think we have been programmed a great deal to consistently beat ourselves down not in a constructive manner but more in a 'you aren't good at anything. You're so stupid' kind of way.

In children, the blind spot is the dominant section, which is why they are naturally self-accepting.

The more I thought about it, the more I realized that in each of our blind spot is a wealth of solutions to the problems that have most frustrated us in our lives. We create our reality, and so when we are creating a reality we don't want despite our best intentions, could it be there is something we are creating blindly that we are not aware we are creating? Therein lies a key. A key to a massive hidden door.

In children, the blind spot is the dominant section, which is why they are naturally self-accepting.

What do you mean by shadow?

The blind spot might be perceived differently by friends and family and others, but it's the thing they're least likely to talk to you about. 

Unless they're really angry with you and shout it out.  Then you get angry and def/offensive and refuse to accept it any way.  Looking from the inside to the outside is fundamentally different to the other way around.

In any case we would rationalise it away if someone was to gently inform us of it.

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The blind spot might be perceived differently by friends and family and others, but it's the thing they're least likely to talk to you about. 

Unless they're really angry with you and shout it out.  Then you get angry and def/offensive and refuse to accept it any way.  Looking from the inside to the outside is fundamentally different to the other way around.

In any case we would rationalise it away if someone was to gently inform us of it.

A friend who will call you out on your bullshit is a true friend.